Singles awareness day!

Well I guess you could call it an epiphany but something became glaringly obvious to me on Valentines Day this year. I am obviously single. I know what you are thinking.....doe it really take genuis intelligence to figure that out or an unexpected movement from God? Well, no really but I have been fighting it with such energy and force that I nearly have driven myself completely crazy!

and before I go any further please let me apologize to those of you who do bother to follow this blog. I have not posted in ages and I apologize. Between almost daily facebook updates and multiple tweets per hour I sometimes find myself lacking any sufficient motivation to was poetically about whats bothering me today. But this season of times feels oddly familiar and just different enough for me to have some clarity.

Yes Valentines day sucked because along with all of my other single friends we have to constantly reminded on that single day that there is no one at home cooking a romantical valentines dinner or waiting to take you out for hot rolls and some clandestine 2 for 20 special. Sad as that may be..........

So what to do with that information? Well first lets face some facts....text message and email relationships Do NOT count as real relationships. Flirting on facebook and /or twitter doesnt count either. Online dating is for the birds and for every dude who claims that he wants more than the proverbial romp in the hay there are at least 100 who want exactly that and nothing more. The one who was honest is either totally not your type or is married. Secondly, I am hereby reserving the love word for the most ridiculously insanely cannot sleep without you next to me type of encounter or else I will hold it inside me forever.

Done with dating, flirting, hooking up, text relationshipping, and online meeting and greeting.............DONE I TELL YOU!!!

Tomorrow is Lent 46 days (40 not including Sundays) before Easter. ITs a wonderful time to prepare to start a new! Just between you and me I completely blew the whole New Years Resolution thing. So, God is faithful and knows his children, we have been given yet another opportunity to fix some stuff, clear the head, purge the old and let go of some useless GARBAGE.............

Somebody once said.....Let Go of anything that isnt useful, beautiful, or joyful..............ex relationships still smoldering just under the surface are holding me hostage...letting it go.......people who are still trying to figure out who they are serve no purpose in my life and so...........letting it go.....online connections and text flirting are all incredible wastes of time...........letting it go................anything that isnt making me a better person Has to Go!!

So as you wonder if this is the last communication you will ever recieve from me ask yourself this question......were you taking from or adding to.............